This year has flown by fast and I wanted to share a few of my highlights. Although I always have a nagging feeling of what I didn’t cross off off my “To-Do” list, I accomplished a ton this year.
A couple of large projects, lots of small ones, a few personal milestones, and many moments enjoyed.
My heart is full. I’ve spent the year enjoying my children, family, and friends. I can’t wait to see what 2014 has in store for us.
It’s always freezing cold and every year, we wonder if we can brave the weather, but we are there. I’m glad to be sharing this with my girls and I hope that they will grow up knowing that women deserve BETTER. Plus, I really get into my sign making, and that’s always a fun project.
I built a diamond tufted dining bench for our Homeschool room. The girls use it every day when they do their work. This was a design from scratch that I did with Ana white. There are free plans too if you would like to make your own!
Pick a friendly fabric, because there will be lots of glue!
February is a big month for us. It kicks off with my youngest daughter’s birthday. She turned the big “3” and had her first birthday party Dora-style. Winter birthdays are tough! We have a tiny house that does not accommodate large groups, so we opted to have the party at a kiddie play place. Jabbers was phenomenal, the facility and staff were amazing, and I think we will be doing that one again this year!
The hair that she butchered so many times finally started to grow out.
Then came the Day of Looooove! I participated in this fabulous “Hey Girl” linky party with a few of my blogger friends to give a shout out to all of our main men. Go HERE for some great laughs. Here was one of my contributions:
I also managed to whip up some Valentine’s day surprises for my girls. These cute little cupcake purses were originally Christmas gifts that I didn’t get finished in time. But, they ended up just perfect for Valentines day. I posted a link to the tutorial here.
Preparing for the big day, we made Valentine’s boxes for our first ever Valentine’s Day party. That is one of the downsides to homeschooling- class parties. They were always the best days in public school! I happen to do a weekly bible study with some lovely ladies that are also homeschooling moms, so we gathered our troops and had a party of our own.
I can’t wait for this year’s party! The kids all had a great time.
Those cold, quiet days of winter spent cuddled up together. Basking in the glow of Kindles since there was almost no sunshine to be seen. We were getting some serious cabin fever by March.
We welcomed spring and warm weather with open arms. We also welcomed new life into our lives.
With April came Easter, and some long awaited relief from morning sickness. I sewed the girls matching peasant dresses to wear for the big day. Easter egg hunts at both grandparents’ houses meant double the fun!
Are my kids lazy or just smart? They figured out a faster way to collect eggs at their Grammy’s house.
In early summer, we decided to take a day trip to Bruneau Sand Dunes. It is the “largest moving sand dune in North America” (according to the sign at the park). Sam and I hadn’t been there since we were kids and thought it would be a good destination for a day out. While driving through the desert town of Murphy, Id, we happened upon their annual “Outpost Days” at the Owyhee County historical museum. We stuck around and got to watch our very first horny toad race.
Apparently this was a big deal. People gathered from all around for the main event.
Things got all fancy with when they placed the toads under a five gallon bucket in the middle of a pit. Then, when the bucket comes off, the first toad to the edge wins.
I don’t even think it’s a toad at all. That’s a lizard if you ask me.
But what do we cityslickers know?
When in Rome…
We came, we saw, we conquered. Turns out the Horny Toad Race was the highlight of our day because in the end, we arrived at a giant pile of sand…I guess the idea of sand dune is much cooler when you are a kid because you are thinking of Aladdin and looking for scorpions.
B-o-ring!
The view from the top was not so bad, then the wind picked up and we hurried back down to avoid the sand in our eyes.
We saw a snake, got attacked by a million mosquitos, and ooh’d and ahh’d over the view of the Snake River Valley on the drive home. It was great to get out of the house and the drive made it feel like old times before children.
Sam and I USED to have a sense of adventure!
We decided that we need to make more of an effort to get away, even if it is just for a day to rediscover those things you forget.
With June came Father’s Day, and I surprised Sam with this great cooler stand. Ana White broke my design down into a free plan to follow and you can make one for your Dad too!
July is a big month for us every year. It is Sam’s favorite holiday, second only to Christmas. He LOVES 4th of July.
Like really loves it.
Each year, we go to the illegal fireworks stand out of town.
This is what is crazy about fireworks in Idaho. You can buy illegal fireworks (those that go higher than 10 feet off the ground) within state lines, but it is illegal to actually set them off in Idaho. So you sign a waiver upon purchase that you will only light them off out of state and you are golden.
What the what?
I know. Some might say it is a technicality, I say bring on the Roman Candles!
See, he magically turns into an eight year old boy when July shows up. It’s nothing but the smell of gunpowder in the air for a solid week around our house! He and the neighbor turn the back yard into a sparkler bomb factory.
You know it’s going to be a great 4th of July when your fireworks have names like “Midnight Sunburn,” “Pyro Magic,” and “I <3 America!”
For almost ten years now, our neighborhood has had a block party. We all roll our grills out front and plan for a night of food and fun. I feel so blessed to live in ‘Merica!
After the 4th, the following week is time for the annual Snake River Stampede. It’s a rodeo that has been a part of my town’s culture since before I was born. I grew up going to the week-long festivities including the “Buckaroo Breakfast” and the Snake River Stampede Parade.
This is the largest horse parade in the west- I even rode my horse as part of the parade when I was twelve, so there is some nostalgia there that makes me all teary-eyed when we attend every year. I will say, the parade is not what it used to be. Maybe it is just me, but it seemed much larger when I was a kid.
Ohh, I SO wanted to be a rodeo queen when I was a little girl! All the sparkles, the crown, the big cowgirl hair… It was as close to a Disney Princess as I was ever going to get.
Sam had to work, so we had a girls day out at the rodeo. I brought home the program because cowboys have the best names. Who needs a baby name book when you have the bronc riding schedule?
We also said “Goodbye” to a few things last year. One was my waistline, and two were these shoes. These were Lyla’s. As you can tell, they were well loved. These were a gift to my oldest by her cousin Brooke. Ava never really wore them, but when Lyla discovered they were a perfect fit, she wore them with everything. I could not get these shoes away from her! She loved them so much! I know I will have memories of her prancing in her sparkly shoes, her dainty little feet tip-toeing around, and the sound of her tiny voice singing. I thought of keeping them for sentimental value, then realized that’s what hoarders do, so I took a picture of them and chucked ’em.
August was a hot one! And an ultrasound confirmed that the bun in my oven was a BOY! Our first boy was something to look forward to.
I decided that if I was ever going to have a yard sale before summer’s end, I was running out of time! My nieces came over and helped me sort through a mountain of baby girl clothes. Two girls and a grandma who likes to shop equals an ungodly amount of baby girl clothes that were taking up some serious space in our storage shed. With the clock ticking, I knew I had to make some room for our little boy.
I’m laughing because as I was looking back over my Facebook feed for the year, I found this:
Ahh! My kids are just like me. Just busted them in the garage digging their old stuff out of the yard sale pile. I’m shaking my head because I caught them, and because they are girls after my own heart. #hoarders
I knew the time would come someday, but just didn’t know when. Finally, after a year of receiving catalogs (surely I was not pushing her into this), Ava asked for an American Girl doll.
We were preparing to buy her one for her upcoming birthday and I was even checking out ebay for a “gently used” doll in good condition. Problem is, the old dolls are considered “collector’s items” and they are not cheap. Sam and I were saving up to get her the doll when we had a brilliant idea.
Fundraiser at the yard sale!
Ava was floored! She loved the idea. We made signs, got out the toy cash register, and launched a full campaign for an American Girl fund. I woke up early and made bought doughnuts and muffins (fresh-baked, of course. Thanks, Fred Meyer).
I can tell you this was one proud parenting moment for me. My daughter has skills. At five years old, I was so impressed with her ability to make conversation and give her sales pitch to yard sale customers. In her articulate little girl voice: “Hello, I’m raisng money to buy an American Girl Doll. I’m selling muffins, doughnuts, and cookies. They are $1 for the large, or 2 for a $1….Which would you like?” ALL.DAY.LONG. She stayed outside for a solid 8 hours selling treats and manning her table. One kind lady even donated $20 to her doll fund. It brought me to tears.
She’s growing up.
Ava earned over $50! It was a huge success. Even better for us, she decided the Target version of the doll was just what she wanted, so we loaded up and made the trip to Target that evening. She gave the leftover money to her sister and Lyla put it toward Gak, haha.
Ahh. Victory is a sweet reward!
Moving on, August was another attempt at finishing our bathroom remodel from the PREVIOUS summer.
The story goes like this:
The summer before, our water heater flooded and ruined our kitchen. We repaired the damage and took on another project of a bathroom remodel with the extra money we saved from DIYing. Problem was, we got lazy, and when the weather turned, we gave up on cutting tile outside in the snow. We only managed to tile one of the three walls. Normal people have nice insulated garages for this sort of thing, but that was something we overlooked as young newlyweds when we bought our house. So the bathroom job went on the backburner. We planned to finish it in the spring, but I got preggers and the morning sickness won out.
So, I finally decided to get that tiling done before winter came.
Again.
One year of using only the bathtub was not so fun.
You see, my husband hates baths.
Hates them.
I’ve come to the realization that here are two types of people in the world.
Those who take pleasure in a long, warm soak- filling the tub with epsom salts and essential oils, letting the stress of the day melt in the hot drawn water. Allowing tired, achy muscles to unwind and relax (me).
Then there are the other people (husband). Those who think baths are disgusting. Something along the lines of “soaking in one’s own filth” is the description they give.
I pity them.
Because he so despises baths, Sam has been taking “shaths” as he calls them, for the last year. This is where he gets in the tub on all fours and sticks his head under the spout to “shower.” Trust me, when you’ve seen a grown man, naked on all fours getting ready for work at five in the morning- your heart breaks a little. I so wanted to get the shower tiled before the baby came. For his sake, so he could get his dignity back.
After the yard sale was done and the leftovers were donated, mess cleaned up, and stuff rearranged, I got crackin’ on the tile. On Sam’s day off, we managed to tile ONE of the shower sides.
And that’s it.
Yep. Planned on finishing the job the following weekend but something happened (probably football) and we just never got it done. Two out of three ain’t bad, right? Hopefully the final wall will get done THIS year.
See, that’s the side of DIYing that doesn’t show up on peoples’ blogs that much. People forget to mention how long projects take in real life. Jobs, kids, life…those kinds of things really affect your timeline when you are doing it yourself.
If there is ONE thing I have learned in blogging my DIY projects so far, it is DON’T post about it till the project is complete. I’ve been smack dab in the middle of projects and so excited to share the details that I post about it and say something like, “Next week, you will see the final pics” only to realize that “next week” really became “next month” or in my case, turned into “next year.” That’s life, nothing is predictable.I just have to remember to enjoy the journey even when my to-do list doesn’t get checked off in time.
Okay, another HUGE thing that happened in August:
I GOT A CELL PHONE!!!
I know, I am kind of a big deal. We gave up cell phones six years ago when I quit my job to be a stay at home mom. It was a luxury we couldn’t afford, so we went without. When Sam was promoted this year, he became the closest manager to the store. Meaning, if the store alarm happens to go off at night, he is the first person called and expected to be down there. When the boss asked for his cell phone # and he just stared back with a confused look on his face, he knew that wasn’t going to work. After he was laughed out of the room for living in the dark ages, we went and got him a cell phone that evening. Fast forward a month or two and the convenience factor was so nice, we were constantly fighting for use of his phone (I am a mom, running errands with children. It is obvious I need it more!) and our cable/home phone/internet contract was expiring …I just couldn’t see any way around it. So, I did the wise thing and got my very own cell phone.
Have you seen these things??!!
I mean, seriously, I can update my facebook status, TEXT, and check my email all in the palm of my hand!!!
I had been living at least a decade behind in the technology department. While everyone else was deciding when to upgrade their iphone, I was googling things like “SMH” and “TIA” because I was so out of the loop.
“Selfies” looked like this:
I had to adjust the camera, ask my five year old to take a picture without dropping said camera, upload it to the computer, and then load it onto facebook. So not fair.
I could have a cell phone just for instagram alone!! By the way, BirdsAndSoap is on Instagram, yo! Follow me for adorable baby pics and photos of my thrift store junk finds.
September is a big month in our house. It is my birthday, my daughter’s birthday, and our wedding anniversary. If you ask my husband which is what, he always says out loud “6, 16, 26? 6, 16, 28?” until he gets the dates right. It’s a busy month.
My husband and I had a great date night for my birthday, thanks to my in-laws. They treated us to a great restaurant in Boise, I could have just walked around and stared at all the details forever. *See my Instagram feed for a pic of the entry, haha .
For Ava’s 6th birthday, I custom painted this easel and shared the project on my blog. Another personal milestone, this was my very first time working with a company on my blog- the fabulous Deco Art! It was pretty exciting for me, they sent me some great products to try out, and her birthday surprise was a smash!
And we celebrated TEN YEARS as husband and wife! An entire decade of marriage. A flash in the pan, I tell ya. I don’t even remember what we did, I think we had a night in with the girls, but still, we had each other.
I love to sew and especially like the challenge of making my kids’ costumes. The most difficult part is talking them down from the ledge of which Disney Princess they want to be. I prefer something a bit less predictable. I won! This year, they went as “Glinda the Good” and “Theodora” from “Oz the Great and Powerful.” I finished just in the knick of time.
Ava loved her costume and the cape was a last minute touch.
Lyla’s was my favorite. She just looked so adorable in that little dress.
She is my shy one. Yes, she will take your candy, but you have to listen close for the tiny “Thank You” as she is turning away.
We had a great time trick-or-treating. Unfortunately, my body was pretty maxed out at this point. With one month to go, and it being my third pregnancy, I was especially achy. Don’t get me started on what the baby “dropping” felt like that time around. It’s X-rated.
My hormones were kicked into full nesting mode, but my body just couldn’t keep up. I did manage to squeeze out (no pun intended) a couple more big projects- just before our little man showed up.
I’ve already used this paint on another side table and can’t wait to try it on more projects!
And my greatest DIY project of 2013 came on November 13th:
I can’t take all the credit. I had a little help. Finn Samuel Piirto was born at 6:53 a.m. 5 pounds, 12 ounces, and 18 inches long. The most INTENSE and quickest (Praise the Lord!) back labor I’ve ever experienced. He came a week early (just as I had predicted, really patting myself on the back for that one). He reminds me of Ava, I think they have the same eyes.
The girls are so delighted to have a little brother. It has been a smooth transition, and so far, I think going from two to three children is way easier than going from one to two.
We finished off December with a “Good Old-Fashioned Family Christmas” (name that movie).
The girls sang beautifully in our church’s Christmas Eve program.The rocking chair interview had an extra little rocker this year. The girls were so excited for Santa to come that they skipped feeding the reindeer and put themselves to bed an hour early. As I was closing their door, they said, “Don’t forget to put some cookies out for Santa!”
He loved it!
And, to the girls delight, Santa brought their most requested gifts.
Last year, Ava told me about a week after Christmas, “Mom, I asked Santa for a Furby, but I think he may not be able hear well because he brought me a Barbie. You know, because he is old.”
Yes.
That must be it, Ava. I think Santa is old and deaf. That, or he wasn’t about to spend $50 on a dumb stuffed animal.
Well, this year was proclaimed the “Year of the Furby” because Santa scored a sweet deal on Walmart.com with a sale and gift card promo that brought joy to the children’s hearts on Christmas morn.
And Lyla, she only wanted one thing. A Mooshka doll. It took about a month of her trying to explain it to me before I finally saw a commercial and realized it was a thing.
We are half way through our first year of official homeschooling. Ava is killing it in kindergarten, and Lyla is showing me she is more brilliant than I had ever suspected. She is quietly taking it all in.
We have a few big goals that are within reach, and I feel that with our family growing, we are in the midst of the best days of our married life.
Well, there you have it. A few of my highlights for the year. I can’t wait to see what 2014 has in store for us! Here’s to a great year, and another to come!
So, how about you? What were your highlights for 2013? What are your goals for 2014? I’ve got too many to list, but I will get there a little at a time.
And because I can’t resist, more gratuitous baby shots:
In preparation for my niece’s High School Graduation Party, this vintage school desk was the perfect compliment to use for the party decor. My friend Tina is moving (boo!) and offered up a few old school desks from her homeschool room, free for the taking. I reluctantly declined because I have no more square footage…
This was my first year attending the CHOIS (Christian Homeschoolers of Idaho State) Convention. I had been anticipating the big day for a couple of months, and was really curious how the whole experience would be. So many expectations, and really, I’m brand new at this. I was really hoping I would attend some kind…
If you are a mom, then chances are you just received flowers over Mother’s Day weekend. My husband surprised me (more like I sent him an email a month ago to plant a little bug in his ear) with some potted plants, birdfeeders, and a couple of hanging baskets for our backyard. He rocks! I’ve…
Sigh…. I know, my blog is called “Birds and Soap, Soap and Birds,” so you’d think there would be some explanation as to why there’s no soap around here. Well, here it is: Soapmaking has been on the backburner. On the backburner for eighteen months. Eighteen months and two days actually. Can I give you…
My greatest resource for aiding in the mastery of letter sounds is this CD. It was put out years ago by Discovery Toys (which I think is like Avon for toys). The CD is called “Sounds Like Fun,” by artist Barbara Milne. Children do not learn to read by memorizing the names of letters, rather…
One night I was pondering the future, particularly bunk beds. With our two girls in a tiny house, I was dreaming up plans for their future sleeping arrangements. I was looking into all sorts of designs; from fancy $10,00 Rap Star’s daughters’ bunk beds, all the way down to the simple 2×4 plank style. Searching…
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There is no such thing as too many baby pictures. Spoken as the oldest of 11 kids. I know what you mean about a crazy year. It sounds like we are a lot alike.<br /><br />cabinofbows.blogspot.com
Thanks Lois! Glad I am not alone!
Wow, I can't imagine how long it took you to write that post! I love seeing your whole pregnancy through the year along with the recaps of some of those amazing DIYs! And I agree, never too many baby pics!!!
You. Are. Amazing. !!! <br /><br />I love all of your crafty ideas, I wish I could do some with you!! Your family is so great Jenny, we miss you guys <3
You. Are. Amazing. !!! <br /><br />I love all of your crafty ideas, I wish I could do some with you!! Your family is so great Jenny, we miss you guys <3
Miss you Chelsea! Wish we had spent more time together when you were in Idaho, I hope things are well with you!
You had a very productive year! That tufted bench is amazeballs… but the kitty jumping off the end it priceless!!
Love those projects, and you're right, Finn is clearly the greatest project of 2013!!!
It took FOR E VER. I think this definitely goes down as the longest blog post known to man!
Thanks! I just can't see it any other way!
If you only saw what that sweet kitty did to the corner of that bench. I'll just say I don't fret too much when the kids get marker on it.
There is no such thing as too many baby pictures. Spoken as the oldest of 11 kids. I know what you mean about a crazy year. It sounds like we are a lot alike.<br /><br />cabinofbows.blogspot.com
Thanks Lois! Glad I am not alone!
Wow, I can't imagine how long it took you to write that post! I love seeing your whole pregnancy through the year along with the recaps of some of those amazing DIYs! And I agree, never too many baby pics!!!
You. Are. Amazing. !!! <br /><br />I love all of your crafty ideas, I wish I could do some with you!! Your family is so great Jenny, we miss you guys <3
You. Are. Amazing. !!! <br /><br />I love all of your crafty ideas, I wish I could do some with you!! Your family is so great Jenny, we miss you guys <3
Miss you Chelsea! Wish we had spent more time together when you were in Idaho, I hope things are well with you!
You had a very productive year! That tufted bench is amazeballs… but the kitty jumping off the end it priceless!!
Love those projects, and you're right, Finn is clearly the greatest project of 2013!!!
It took FOR E VER. I think this definitely goes down as the longest blog post known to man!
Thanks! I just can't see it any other way!
If you only saw what that sweet kitty did to the corner of that bench. I'll just say I don't fret too much when the kids get marker on it.